This guy I’ve been “hanging out” with tried to have unprotected sex with me.

I know, I know. To some it’s not really a big deal, or rather it’s not taboo or foreign. & I’d be lying if I said that I can not wait to be in a committed, monogamous relationship because raw-doggin’ has got to feel fantastic. But the fact that me & homeboy are not even that intimate & he tried to pull that on me really bothered me. & I let him know. Like, I went off.

I guess he didn’t know that of all women who are HIV-positive, 57% of them are African American. Guys value their dicks so much, you’d think they’d be careful with it. It doesn’t even matter where you put it, how often you put it there, and how many different places it’s been,  just wrap it up. Not to mention, so many diseases lie dormant in men and they, sometimes somewhat innocently, pass things on.

Needless to say, after my rant I decided the whole ordeal was strike one, two, and three. He’s been doing some good groveling though so I may re-think. Just hope my safety talk went through his head. The one on his shoulders.  

I totally didn’t mean to make this a safe sex after-school special..